These rules are only applicable to Me and not other dommes. I am very particular. I am very irritable. I ban people left right. My ban list on Niteflirt is probably near a thousand…. I am blocking tons of people on AVN every day. You may have accidentally found yourself one of My lists and wondering what you did in order to get yourself in this predicament. Here are a few tips to AVOID getting banned and how to rectify the situation if you are banned.
Messaging on AVN & IWC
Many of you are pissing Me the fuck off on chat/messaging. I don’t even know where to start. I am going to take screenshots to post here if all the offenses when I can be bothered.
Not Sending A Tribute When You Message
Rude. Instant ban.
Asking The Same Question Over & Over
I had a guy on AVN asking to be put on specific debt contract. I already told him it was $100 to be put ON the contract. Then he had the audacity to ask the same shit a few days later. Don’t ask for the same thing over and over again. I will ban you. I don’t care if you’ve bought clips on IWC. I will still ban you. And fucking send a tribute before you message! Being annoying as fuck, asking repetitive shit and no tributes. Don’t ask about something if you aren’t serious and can’t afford it. I don’t talk about your fetishes for free.
Giving Me Unsolicited Clip Ideas
Some clip buyers think they can send me a message on IWC giving me unsolicited clip ideas. I remember one guy said “Goddess, why are all your clips focused on cumming? We don’t deserve it. Why not make clips without cumming?” etc. Have you fucking heard of custom clips? If you have an idea fill out the fucking form and you can pay fucking $15 per min. How the fuck is that. Do you think I take custom ideas over IWC messaging now for free? You think because you buy 2-3 clips that I will take your ideas? No one asked for them! I make whatever the fuck clip I want. If you don’t like it then don’t fucking buy it. Simple.
Talking About Your Fetishes For Free
Some dumb fuck on Twitter messaged me on IWC asking if I do blackmail etc… and then kept talking about it etc… if you want it then pay UP FRONT. I DO NOT TALK ABOUT YOUR FETISHES FOR FREE. I AM NOT READING YOUR SHIT OR ANSWERING QUESTIONS FOR FREE. Pay for my fucking time or GTFO.
Non-Spenders Messaging
Fucking smart ass bitch messaged “Oh, I can read the text you blurred out on your clip preview” . Who the fuck do you think you are that I give a fuck? Do you think you are going to get a response? That’s a fucking IP ban. Banned from viewing my store. Banned from messaging. Banned from tributing (not like that was gonna happen). Bought 0 clips. Spent $0. Tributed $0. Messaging me for fucking what? For what? Do you think you will get a response? Do you know that on IWC I have the option of blocking someone from BEING ABLE TO EVEN VIEW MY STORE? IT’S AN IP BAN. That’s what this person got. I don’t want people like this even LOOKING at My store.
Offensive Twitter Accounts
I’ll admit it. When someone follows Me on Twitter I do take the time to look at your profile. If I find your Twitter offensive, I will block you. For example, the guy who followed Me today had tweeted that he is looking for a domme he can pay with in cigarettes and that true dommes aren’t just about the $ and that small tributes count as well. Stated he was looking for a domme who doesn’t expect a lot of money so to speak and will entertain him for free/cheap basically. That is an instant block. I do not want someone like that reading My tweets. I do not want someone like that following. I am expensive. My prices are high. ALL I care about is $.
I am picky about who I chose to serve Me. Not everyone qualifies. I am not in need of miniscule tributes and spare change. Keep your spare change if you need it. I don’t want it.
Phone Sites
Do Not Ask For “Permission” Before Calling My Phone Line On Niteflirt or IWC
It’s very simple. When lines are open you can fucking call. When lines are not open don’t call. Do not message Me asking for permission, when you’ve spent $0. Do you think I am here on call 24/7 to “give permission” for free? Fuck no. If you insist on permission (when my lines are turned on), because that is your kink, have the decency to tribute a minimum of $25 before you hit the “message” button .
If My lines aren’t on, it means I am not available. Simple. It doesn’t mean you can message Me and expect Me to turn my lines on just for you. If you want to me to do so, you need to tribute at least $100. And note that it wont mean I’ll be turning My line on either; I may be busy. I prefer members who just call when lines are open (without messaging me) and leave Me alone when lines are off.
“Talking About Your Kinks IS Part Of The Session. You Pay For It. I Don’t Talk About It For Free”.
Do Not Message Me About What Kind Of Call You Want To Do In Advance (Phone)
That just tells Me you are fucking cheap. If it’s a phone call then TELL ME DURING THE CALL. TALKING ABOUT WHAT YOU “LIKE” IS PART OF THE ACTUAL CALL. Don’t message Me and ask if I do “such and such type of call”. It’s clearly listed on My profile what type of calls I will take. As long as the call does not break Niteflirt’s TOS (terms of service) in regards to prohibited content, I will most likely do the call as long as it’s in line with the calls I take (only femdom, never vanilla). Note that this rule only applies to phone obviously and not Skype.
Tribute Before Messaging
This is the best way to avoid getting blocked. Tribute Me for My time to show appreciation for Me taking the time to read your message. It is a privilege after all. If you message Me without a tribute, you are very likely to get blocked.
Repeatedly Clicking My Listings On NF & Not Calling Or Buying
If you continuously click on My ads and don’t call I will eventually block you. Goddess sees everything; I can tell each time you click on a featured listing. If I’ve sent you 75 Pay To View Messages and your spend is at $0, I will also block you. I figure some are eternal freeloaders and can’t be bothered to convert you into a customer. Once you are on this block list I will not take you off no matter what.
Skype Calls
Tell Me These 3 Things In The First Message On Skype
I hate inefficiency. If you want to do a Skype show and your first message is “Hi” or if it’s a long copy paste message it will just irritate the shit out of Me. I ask of THREE things in the FIRST message (and this is clearly stated on any site where I take cam shows or any ad listing).
“When it takes you 3 separate messages to convey the same info you could have sent in one message, you are wasting My time.”
1. Name of the site you found Me on
2. Type of show you want in 2 sentences
3. Payment method (if applicable)
I am asking you to send all 3 points in ONE MESSAGE to avoid wasting time. When you are messaging Me on Skype with long gaps in between responses, you are not being respectful of My time. Time is money. If you can’t follow these simple instruction then you aren’t smart enough to serve Me. I don’t have the patience to deal with slow/struggling/dumb slaves that can’t follow instructions.
Don’t add Me on Skype if you aren’t ready to call NOW. I do not make small talk on Skype. I do not chit chat. I CHARGE TO TEXT AND I CHARGE PER MINUTE OR PER MESSAGE SENT.
Do Not Send Unsolicited Info On Skype
I never asked about your femdom history or what you did with other dommes in the past, so don’t send it to Me. If you send Me a novel about what kind of show you want (anything longer than 3 sentences, I will block you). This is considered time wasting and trying to get attention for free. Did you pay Me to read this? Have you tributed?
Short Calls
I fucking hate short calls. Frankly, it’s not worth My time to take them and I block for short calls now. In order for Me to take a call I need to adjust the position and height of my laptop, make sure mic and cam is plugged in, softboxes are plugged in. You think I’m doing all of that to take a 5 min call? Easier to just ban you for wasting My time.
Bartering/Offering Your Shitty Marketing/SEO/Web Design/Video Editing/Re-Tweet Services
You can’t afford My services. I don’t deal with broke fucks. Your stupid. Your incompetent. Your fucking broke. Your shit skills are worth about $5 on Fiverr. Really. I have all the above skills and can execute them better than you. If they were worth a damn you would actually be able to afford to pay Me at my market rate.
I do not need a video editor. I shoot a shit ton of content and I edit all of it Myself. I am a hands-on, independent kind of Goddess. My clips. My vision. My masterpiece. I would NEVER let someone edit my clips. The “editing” is where the magic happens. A clip can turn out 100 different ways based on the editing. Do you think I would entrust that to a fucking random? Your services are not needed. Stop spamming Me. Go sell your shit on Upwork or Fiverr. Seriously.
The slightest mention of offering any type of services (including re-tweet services) will get you fucking blocked. I do not fucking barter. I only accept tributes.
Do Not Offer Other Payment Methods
I wasn’t fucking born yesterday. Who do you think you are dealing with? When I say I only accept payment with a AVN Stars or IWantClips tribute, I fucking mean it! Do you think I don’t know that Paypal, Cash App and Venmo can be reversed/charged back? Do you think I don’t know that Paypal reveals the receiver’s legal name?
“Ohhhh, but I would never do that Goddess!”. Fuck off. Either pay in the methods I am telling you to, or fuck off. There are other reasons why I don’t accept other forms of payments but I am not obligated to justify them to you. I am never in a position to have to justify anything to you. My word is simply law. Get it? When I tell you to do something, do it and don’t question it. This is called impertinence and I will block for that too!
Thinking There Is Any Other Way To Serve Me Than With $$$
“You are delusional if you think you can really serve Me in any other way then tributing Me online.”
I am NOT an in-person domme and NEVER WILL BE. I am an online domme. I have no need for a house cleaning bitch boy. I have no need for anything except your cash. That is the only value you have. Get it clear. Serving Me is about serving Me. Not serving your cock or the satisfaction you get. If you truly wanted to serve Me you would just tribute Me and not ask for anything in return.
Do Not Ask Personal Questions
I don’t get personal. Asking Me things like “Where are you from” or “How old are you” or “What kind of Asian are you?” etc is going to get you banned. All fucking annoying questions that are none of your business. Know your place. Don’t ask questions that are none of your concern. The only person that is asking the questions here is ME. Not you. I don’t answer to you. I am not here to be pre-qualified/interviewed by you. I’m the one who decides if you are worthy to serve. Not the other way around. You should never ask ANY woman her age period, let alone a domme. It is fucking rude. Have some damn manners. Put it this way; I am old enough where that question is highly insulting and inappropriate.
How To Get Unblocked
Some of these loser ass bitches don’t even deserve to be unblocked anymore. If you piss Me off I will not unblock you no matter how much you pay. I am serious btw. Stay blocked.
Last Updated on March 2, 2021 by Goddess Lila