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What Is The Definition Or Meaning Of Findom?
Curious as to what is findom? The definition of "findom" known as "financial domination" or "money slavery" is a niche when a submissive "tributes" or gifts the domme without any expectations in return. The submissive will often have feelings of arousal while sending money to his superior. Findom falls under the BDSM umbrella.
Financial domination is one of the more extreme forms of BDSM because it can have long term effects after the session is over. Sending money without asking for anything in return is one of the most honest and purest ways a submissive can show devotion.
The Appeal Of Findom
Men of all walks of life may be aroused by the thought of giving money to a beautiful, dominant woman but this fetish tends to be more common with successful, Type-A personalities in high stress jobs.
Findom allows these men the ability to let go and not have to think in the moment. Having someone "telling you what to do" can be liberating for someone who has to make all of the major decisions in his daily life. Many men define themselves by their net worth and giving away their money, is just one way of giving away some of their power.
Financial Domination Is A Popular Fetish
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Findom consistently ranks as one of the "top categories" on IWantClips, which is one of the most popular fetish clip sites. IWantClips is well known for its high quality loser porn and findom category. That being said, the majority of consumers who purchase findom porn clips simply enjoy watching them. It's a much smaller percentage of buyers who will actually engage in findom sessions.
Findom & Overlapping Femdom Fetishes
What is financial domination with other fetishes? Many submissives have other kinks and fetishes they enjoy in conjunction with findom. It's highly personal and different for each individual but in most cases findom tends to overlap with another fetish.
For example, some may enjoy being degraded and humiliated while being "rinsed". Many subs like to be called names like "pay pig", "loser", "cash slave" and "bitch" throughout the session. It is rather common, from my own experience, for finsubs to have a foot fetish. A finsub with a foot fetish may enjoy being told that he's a "foot bitch" and that his purpose is to pay for the domme's feet.
Another popular fetish within the findom genre is "rip-off". This is when the domme rips off the finsub and charges exponentially more for something or in some cases for nothing at all. Prime examples of this can be seen by viewing the latest clips on IWantCips and sorting the clips from "Price High" in the drop down menu.
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The most expensive clips are priced at $10,000. This is a very direct example of rip-off fetish. The chance of someone actually buying a $10,000 clip is almost non-existent (although possible), however $100 rip off clips are sold much more frequently.
How To Find A Findomme
Twitter #Findom
Twitter is filled with many findommes, which can be a mine field by itself as some may be cat fishes. As a result many Twitter findommes will post something called "verification videos" where they will verify their twitter urls and identity.
Fetish Clip Sites
Another way to find a financial dominatrix is to browse the fetish clip sites and engage with a domme if you feel drawn after viewing her clips. IWantClips is an excellent site for this purpose as it has a built-in messaging system. Other clip sites with a "findom" category include Clips4Sale and Kinkbomb. Manyvids is more vanilla oriented but offers "fetish" and "findom" subcategories.
OnlyFans & LoyalFans
Many findom goddesses can also be found on platforms like OnlyFans or LoyalFans, which are online subscription based sites that allow members to view content, pay to view premium content and engage via online messaging.
One noticeable difference between these two sites is that with OnlyFans you'll need to have the findomme's direct url in order to view her page. On the other hand, LoyalFans has an "explore" page which makes it easier to find a findomme. Despite the fact that AVN is a mainstream adult company, LoyalFans itself has a lot of domme profiles.
Niteflirt
Niteflirt is also an excellent site to find a findomme. Niteflirt is one of the oldest phone sex sites online with a "financial domination" category. It allows finsubs to chat, call, buy clips and cam with their favorite dommes.
Reddit, in particular /r/findom is another solid way of finding a findom. Findommes are featured on the main page which makes it easy for finsubs to find a domme to serve and pay.
How To Approach A Findomme
It's always in good form to tribute a findomme before approaching. Successful dommes have lots of cash slaves in line and the only thing that will catch their (or My attention) is a tribute up front. This shows that one is serious and not the dreaded "time waster", whom are quite common in the world of online domming. Experienced goddesses will be quick to dismiss those who approach and message without sending a tribute and submissive men only have one chance to make a good impression.
What Are Financial Domination Online Sessions
Sites like Onlyfans, LoyalFans, Niteflirt and IWantClips are also popular for online findom sessions as they have built-in direct messaging options plus a findomme has the option of sending "PTV's" or "pay to views" to the submissive. A finsub will have to pay in order to view this "locked content" which may contain text, a photo or video. Some cash rinsing sessions simply consist of a domme sending PTV after PTV which the finsub will click to pay and view.
Findom Cam & Phone Sessions
Some dommes may also offer findom Skype sessions as well as findom phone sex. Skype sessions will cam allows for the finsub to view the domme during the session and vice versa. Cam sessions are generally charged on a per minute basis.
Phone sex via sites like Niteflirt are an option for those customer who like to be rinsed via phone. One popular game is called "Raise The Rate", which is when the findomme increases the cost per min with every call, which is at a max of $50 per minute on Niteflirt.
One session could involve just one other fetish and be a straightforward drain. Others may involve a more long term approach where a domme may start exercising financial control over the submissive's finances.
Is Financial Domination Harmful?
Findom isn't inherently harmful by itself. Anything can be harmful if used irresponsibly. As adults, everyone is responsible for their actions and enforcing their own boundaries. Submissive men are adults and have the ability to end a session or simply close their browser at any point in time (which many do).
How Much Can A Findomme Make?
It all really depends on the findomme and there is a huge range in income across the board. It's pretty fair to say that just like most industries the 80/20 principle applies meaning a small percentage of findommes are making most of the money.
What Payment Methods Do Findommes Accept?
This depends solely on the findomme. Many indie findommes accept Cash App, Gift Rocket and Paypal etc while others prefer to only get paid through third party sites like IWC, OnlyFans or LoyalFans.
Personally, I only accept tributes via IWC and LoyalFans. I will never accept Cash App, Paypal, Gift Rocket etc as these payment methods are not sex worker friendly and have clauses in their TOS prohibiting transactions of an adult nature.
Secondly, Paypal reveals the legal name of the recipient to the sender and vice versa and is therefore not safe for adult related transactions. The sender also has the option of charging back on Paypal and Cash App, which makes it not a viable choice for findom transactions.
Is Findom Illegal?
There is nothing illegal about findom by itself. Findom is a fetish or kink between two consenting adults.
Do Findoms Pay Taxes?
It depends on the findom but personally, as someone who gets paid strictly via third party sites and receives 1099's I pay quarterly estimated taxes for every single dollar that I make. This includes federal, state and self-employment taxes. It would be a fair assumption to make that findoms with a presence on clip and subscription based sites are paying their share of taxes since all income is reported to the IRS.
Last Updated on December 30, 2021 by Goddess Lila